The worst thing you can do is bothering someone with a “Hi“.
Wanna know the worst second message? There you go: “How are you“.
If this is your modus operandi…simply forget about meeting cool people.
And don’t be surprised if she has a headache that evening! When I get messages like those I have a headache the whole MONTH!
How to strike home?
These tips are for guys who aren’t only looking for ONSs. In that case: pls keep on writing “Hi!”
- READ the profile.
If there is NO text at all it means 1) you are 90% superficial 2) you have the choice to start any kind of conversation, but with a…
- BAMM! Start your message with a TRIGGER.
No text in the profile?
Write something about the pictures. Something…provocative!
Use your favourite songtext:
»You find another way to be -The highlight of my day –
I’m taking pictures in my mind – So I can save them for a rainy day.*
Or use your favourite series and the slogan of it – this one is for the bold ones:
»What do you think about breaking bad together (:
- Knowledge is POWER.
She/he already litted up the candle to show you the way. Use that!
She/he loves sarcasm? Humour is important? How about this:
- Who ASKS, leads!
I’m not a fan of writing too long, and I suggest you soon to meet in 3D.
But for finding out WHO you’re going to meet (plus to avoid a bOOOring evening)…it’s really interesting having a little ‘job’ interview:» If you could get anything you ever wanted TODAY, what would that be?
» Are you more “The great Gatsby” or “He’s not really into you”?
» Fancy that you inherit a brewery/(a shoe shop) …what would you do? for girls/ (for boys)
» Or: your text here
- Close the deal…er the DATE.
This one is easy, right?
But what we all love is when someone shows that she/he had thought about wHAT wE might like (this is a difficult thought, right. Maybe we need to read it 2-3 times).
So the crowning end is to propose a date like this (**over the ToP** but still sexy: share a moment of the place):
» You seem to be a relaxed guy, so I think you might like the whatever coffee shop.
Happy tindering!
*Whole credit goes to Taylor Swift, “Stay Beautiful”